What is love, does it really exist? Differentiate these words: love, lust and infatuation.
Love does exist, those that doubt that word have either be wrong by that word i.e. they love the wrong person or they have not meet the right person. When you love the wrong person then, all you will be doing will either be wrong or you have over done them. You will be their pet; you will not have any right of your own, all you will be doing is just to please them (which you have forgotten that trying to please everybody is a key to failure). Loving the wrong person will only give you saccharine, when you taste it, initially it will be sugary but it going to give you a taste of bitterness in the end. Loving the wrong person will make one thing constant in your life i.e. “shedding of tears”, there is this saying that says change is the only constant thing in this live. There is nothing wrong in shedding of tears, it cleanse the soul but one need to stop crying and to stop thinking about the things you have lost rather look forward to things you can gain when you find the true one. When you sit down and think on those things you are doing; that they called wrong or over done, is nothing but the right thing to the right one, what he/she is wishing and looking for. When you see the true one, u will be free, reason is that you will not be striving hard to please him/her because all you will be doing is what he/she want and expect. Your joy will be his/her happiness and your sorrow will be his/her sadness. Rather than you trying to please him/her, he/she will be contented with whatever you offer. Expectation of love:
Love gives more and expects less
Love is contented
Love is intense feeling of deep affection or fondness for a person
Love is selfless
Love is not a respecter of anyone
Love is tipsy
Love is sacrificing
Love as great potential of turning one into adolescent.
Love is humility
Love is stingy
Love answer all
Love forgives
Love is consistently persistence.
One thing we must not allow the wrong guys/girls to do to us, they must not kill the flame of love within us, and we must keep our hope alive. Everybody as the fire of love within him/her, all we need is for the true one to ignite it. There is a girl out there waiting for you and there also a guy out there desperately searching for his soul mate, a girl that will sweep him off his feet, that will turn him into a stammered, a girl that will make him beg for things and a girl that will pull down the erected wall against his heart. Infatuation it is an extreme affection, fondness, admiration, i.e. inspired with intense usually transitory fondness while Lust is strong sexual desire
Be careful, don’t mean them together, pray and hope that you find the true one. She is the only one that her passion will match yours and she will truly belong to you nd you alone. To be continuing….
